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| The Top 50 Marketing Blogs To Watch In 2008 | After scouring the Internet for
informative blogs to help entrepreneurs with their marketing efforts we
put together our list of the Top 50 Marketing Blogs To Watch In 2008.
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Search Marketing Blogs
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1) Search Engine Land
URL: http://searchengineland.com/
Editor: Danny Sullivan
Search Engine Land brings you the latest information about all things
search marketing. From SEM to optimization to how search engines work,
Danny Sullivan and his team have it covered.
2) Search Engine Roundtable
URL: http://www.seroundtable.com/
Editor: Barry Schwartz
A rotating roster of authors takes you through some of the most
interesting and talked about threads in Search Engine Marketing forums.
They scan the forums on a daily basis to bring out some of the most
anticipated trends and topics dealing with search marketing.
3) SEOmoz Blog
URL: http://www.seomoz.org/blog
Editor: Rand Fishkin
Based
out of Seattle , WA , SEOmoz staff brings you news, tips, and
highlights from the Search Marketing industry. They cover everything
from the players you need to know to technical issues to the events you
should be at.
4) TopRank Online Marketing Blog
URL: http://www.toprankblog.com/
Editor: Lee Odden
Lee
Odden is the CEO of TopRank Online Marketing, a search marketing agency
whose blog offers news, resources, and interviews on search marketing
and online public relations.
5) JenSense
URL: http://www.jensense.com/
Editor: Jennifer Slegg
SEM
consultant Jennifer Slegg gives you insider information for Google
AdWords, AdSense and Yahoo Publisher Network. Her blog is also filled
with interviews and case studies relating to SEM.
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Online Marketing Blogs
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6)
Pronet Advertising
URL: http://www.pronetadvertising.com/
Editor: Neil Patel
A Californian of British origin, Neil Patel blogs about his personal
experience with online marketing. He'll even give you the inside scoop
on the likes of Facebook and Youtube.
7)
Copyblogger
URL: http://www.copyblogger.com/
Editor: Brian Clark
It's often overlooked, but Clark knows that effective copywriting
skills can make the difference between an online marketing campaign
that bombs or soars. He's here to help you out.
8)
Internet Marketing News
URL: http://www.marketingpilgrim.com/
Editor: Andy Beal
From
breaking industry news stories to in-depth analyses of online marketing
trends, Andy Beal has been blogging as the Marketing Pilgrim since
2005.
9)
MarketingVOX
URL: http://www.marketingvox.com/
Editor: Angela Natividad
Geared
towards marketers and media professionals, MarketingVox highlights the
latest industry trends and news. They go beyond segmentation and
markets to look at the big picture of things.
10)
B.L. Ochman's Weblog
URL: http://www.whatsnextblog.com/
Editor: B.L. Ochman
Blogger
and social media consultant to Fortune 500 companies, B.L. Ochman is
the woman behind the whatsnextblog, a blog that looks at online
marketing strategy and social media trends.
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Affiliate Marketing Blogs
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11)
ProBlogger
URL: http://www.problogger.net/
Editor: Darren Rowse
Once
a hobby blogger, Rowse now offers a comprehensive site aimed at helping
others learn how to make money online. His blog covers everything from
affiliate marketing to other potential income generating streams.
12)
Niche Marketing – Andy Beard
URL: http://andybeard.eu/
Editor: Andy Beard
Andy
Beard blogs on everything from Wordpress to niche marketing to
affiliate marketing tips, and never without “loads of attitude.”
13)
Affiliate Watcher
URL: http://www.affiliatewatcher.com/
Editor: Don Lawson
For
affiliate programs, affiliate program reviews, and everything affiliate
marketing, Don Lawson's blog Affiliate Watcher is the place to go.
14)
eMoms at Home
URL: http://emomsathome.com/
Editor: Wendy Piersall
After
leaving her job, the original eMom at Home decided to start this blog
to help others in their quest to master affiliate marketing. Now,
Piersall is dedicated to helping others earn an income from home.
15)
Marketing Ideas Online – Jim Kukral
URL: http://www.jimkukral.com/
Editor: Jim Kukral
If
you want to know how to make money online, then Jim Kukral's blog
should be one of your stops. He covers not only affiliate programs, but
also events and strategy, and laces his site with handy videos.
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Small Business Marketing Blogs
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16)
Duct Tape Marketing Blog
URL: http://www.ducttapemarketing.com/blog/
Editor: John Jantsch
The award-winning John Jantsch offers his astoundingly practical advice, tips and tricks for small business marketing.
17)
Seth Godin's Blog
URL: http://sethgodin.typepad.com/
Editor: Seth Godin
One
of the most famous names in the industry, Seth Godin's blog has long
been a favourite for all things small business marketing. As the author
of the most popular ebook ever, his blog never fails to give you advice
you need.
18)
Instigator Blog
URL: http://www.instigatorblog.com/
Editor: Benjamin Yoskovitz
An entrepreneur for over ten years, Benjamin Yoskovitz uses his special
brand of humour to discuss issues relating to better business,
marketing and technology.
19)
StartupNation Blog
URL: http://www.startupnation.com/blog/
Editor: Rich and Jeff Sloan
Brothers
Rich and Jeff Sloan have dedicated their site to providing everything
entrepreneurs need to know to achieve success, including some great
stuff on marketing.
20)
Ypulse
URL: http://www.ypulse.com/
Editor: Anastasia Goodstein
Journalist
Anastasia Goodstein provides insights into everything to do with
Generation Y, helping media and marketing professionals break into the
market.
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Marketing and Advertising Blogs
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21)
AdRants
URL: http://www.adrants.com/
Editor: Steve Hall
With
the wit that he has become known and loved for, Steve Hall takes you
through the marketing and advertising industry and all its trends,
shifts, and strategies.
22)
Adland
URL: http://commercial-archive.com/
Editor: Dab***h
This
site goes beyond being a valuable forum for discussion on advertising.
It also serves as a commercial archive. So, if there's an ad you missed
and want to see, this is the place to be.
23)
gapingvoid
URL: http://www.gapingvoid.com/
Editor: Hugh MacLeod
Hugh
MacLeod doesn't just draw “cartoons on the back of business cards.” He
also writes about marketing and advertising, drawing from his
experience in the wine trade.
24)
advertising/design goodness
URL: http://www.frederiksamuel.com/blog/
Editor: Frederik Samuel
A daily updated blog about some of the world's best – and worst – ad designs.
25)
PSFK
URL: http://www.psfk.com/
Editor: Guy Brighton
Guy
Brighton examines some of the global trends occurring in every major
industry, helping businesses better build and rebuild their brands.
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Business to Business Marketing Blogs
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26)
The WebMarketCentral Blog
URL: http://webmarketcentral.blogspot.com/
Editor: Tom Pick
A
B2B marketer since 1992, Tom Pick maintains your portal to everything
you need to know about B2B lead generation and marketing.
27)
Marketing Profs
URL: http://www.marketingprofs.com/
Editor: Allen Weiss
What
started as a simple blog by marketing professor Allen Weiss in 2000 has
today turned into a fully-staffed venture that provides marketing
know-how and offers valuable B2B articles and event information.
28)
Marcom Writer Blog
URL: http://marcom-writer-blog.com/
Editor: Dianna Huff
A B2B marcom expert, Dianna Huff delivers news and her own personal
commentary on all things dealing with B2B marketing communications.
29)
Small Business B2B Marketing
URL: http://www.smallbusinessb2b.com/
Editor: Scott Thompson
Since
2006, Scott Thompson has been providing marketing trends for small B2B
companies, covering everything from email and Internet marketing to
trade shows and events.
30)
Marketing Today Blog
URL: http://marketingtoday.blogspot.com/
Editor: Peter DeLegge
Recommended
by Business 2.0 magazine, Peter DeLegge's blog takes a look at some of
the most current issues and marketing trends facing B2B companies.
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Marketing and Technology Blogs
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31)
Micro Persuasion
URL: http://www.micropersuasion.com/
Editor: Steve Rubel
This
senior VP at one of the world's largest independent PR firms takes you
through technology's transformative effect on marketing and PR.
32)
The Marketing Technology Blog
URL: http://www.douglaskarr.com/
Editor: Douglas Karr
Karr
covers everything from api usage to code samples to market research in
his blog, all in his efforts to “keep you up to date and build your
knowledge.”
33)
Buzz Marketing for Technology
URL: http://buzzmarketingfortech.blogspot.com/
Editor: Paul Dunay
From
the man who currently serves as the Director of Global Field &
Interactive Marketing for BearingPoint comes this blog all about
marketing and creating buzz for technology.
34)
Advertising Lab
URL: http://adverlab.blogspot.com/
Editor: Ilya Vedrashko
In his blog, MIT grad Ilya Vedrashko looks at the future of marketing and advertising technologies and where they are headed.
35)
Technology Evangelist
URL: http://www.technologyevangelist.com/
Editor: Robert Cringley
With
its motto of “Better Living Through Technology,” Technology Evangelist
sets out to cover the latest trends when it comes to hardware,
software, and marketing.
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Guerrilla Marketing Blogs
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36)
Guerrilla Marketing Tactics
URL: http://www.gmarketing.com/articles/
Editor: Jay Conrad Levinson
Although
not officially a blog, the father of guerrilla marketing Jay Conrad
Levinson posts regular articles on anything and everything guerrilla
marketing.
37)
Guerrilla Consulting
URL: http://guerrillaconsulting.typepad.com/
Editor: Michael McLaughlin
The
co-author of “Guerrilla Marketing for Consultants” with Jay Conrad
Levinson, Michael McLaughlin offers his insight into guerrilla tactics
for consultants.
38)
Guerrilla Communication
URL: http://blog.guerrillacomm.com/
Editor: Herbert Krabel
Herbert Krabel takes you through some of the most unique and successful guerrilla marketing campaigns out there.
39)
AdverBox
URL: http://www.adverbox.com/
Editor: Neuville
This daily updated blog presents examples of guerrilla marketing campaigns from around the world.
40)
Guerrilla Marketing Blog
URL: http://gmarketingcoach.com/
Editor: Mitch Meyerson
The
author of six books and a recent guest on the Oprah Winfrey Show, Mitch
Meyerson knows his guerrilla marketing. His blog offers tips and
real-life examples on how to create a successful campaign of your own.
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Brand Marketing Blogs
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41)
Brand Autopsy
URL: http://brandautopsy.typepad.com/
Editor: John Moore
How do you conduct a marketing physical for your brand? Check out John Moore's blog to find out.
42)
Logic Emotion
URL: http://darmano.typepad.com/
Editor: David Armano
David
Armano's self-professed “sweet-spot” lies in trying to find the
intersection between marketing, brand engagement and experience design.
In his blog he looks at how passive consumers can become active
participants.
43)
Branding Strategy Insider
URL: http://www.brandingstrategyinsider.com/
Editor: Derrick Daye
Covering
everything from brand promises and identity to brand leadership and
colours, Tom Asacker has created a blog that tries to help businesses
create stronger and more trustworthy brands.
44)
Branding & Marketing
URL: http://brandandmarket.blogspot.com/
Editor: Chris Brown
From logos to websites to press release, Chris Brown blogs about strategies to build your brand.
45)
The Viral Garden
URL: http://moblogsmoproblems.blogspot.com/
Editor: Mack Collier
“Blurring
the line between company and customer,” Mack Collier's blog offers
valuable advice for those looking to build a strong brand presence with
their customers.
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General Marketing Blogs
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46)
How to Change the World
URL: http://blog.guykawasaki.com/
Editor: Guy Kawasaki
Writing
“A practical blog for impractical people,” Guy Kawasaki remains one of
the most popular business bloggers out there. A venture capitalist,
Kawasaki 's blog remains a must-read for entrepreneurs.
47)
Marketing Sherpa
URL: http://www.marketingsherpa.com/sherpablog.html
Editor: Anne Holland
Using
case studies, surveys, and other techniques, Marketing Sherpa
researches what works – and what doesn't – in all things marketing.
48)
Drew's Marketing Minute
URL: http://www.drewsmarketingminute.com/
Editor: Drew McLellan
The
name says it all. With brief and to the point posts, Drew McLellan
offers his marketing tips to help your business generate customer
loyalty and sales.
49)
Marketing Roadmaps
URL: http://getgood.typepad.com/
Editor: Susan Getgood
Susan Getgood takes a broad look at the industry in general, where it's been and where it's going.
50)
FutureLab
URL: http://blog.futurelab.net/
Editor: Alain Thys
A team of authors comes together to bring you customer centric advice relating to marketing, strategy, and innovation | |
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 | MeGlobe.com Jabber-Powered, Web-Based Instant Messenger with Automatic Realtime | 
Summary
MeGlobe is a web-based instant messenger client with realtime translation into 14 languages. This Jabber-powered
tool lets folks chat interlingually. Users are encouraged to help
improve the translation engine's algorithm by suggesting better
translations when things fall short.
Languages currently available with MeGlobe.com IM/translation client
are: Arabic, Dutch, English, French, German, Greek, Italian, Japanese,
Korean, Mandarin Chinese (Simplified and Traditional), Portuguese,
Russian, Spanish and Swedish.
In addition to Jabber, MeGlobe leverages other Free Software projects to build their foundation: Drupal (main site), MediaWiki (help wiki), phpBB (forum). Somehow they managed to get all these working together with one account in Drupal! Nice :)
From Website
MeWho?
MeGlobe™ was built to diminish language barriers from online
communication. Our free web client lets you type in your own language,
but sends a translated version, in real time, specific to the native
tongue of whomever you are chatting with. With MeGlobe™ there is no
such thing as 'lost in translation.'
Signing up is quick, easy and FREE. Just click on "Signup," give us
some basic info and you're ready to start chatting with people all over
the world. No downloads are required, you don't need to install
anything and you can use MeGlobe™ from any computer with a browser and
Internet connection.
We live in a highly connected global village. Isn't it time we take
language out of the equation so we can talk to our neighbors?
Community Powered
We don't throw the word beta around because it's "cool." The fact
is, machine translation just isn't ready for primetime. Human-2-human
(H2H) interaction, ie chatting with a native buddy from Uzbekistan
about last night's rerun of Baywatch just isn't feasible…yet.
Every time you send a message on MeGlobe's™ network you have the
opportunity to make our translations better. When you notice that a
translation on MeGlobe™ is a little off, let us know by "editing" the
translation. Your buddy will immediately see the corrected translation
and at the same time you are contributing to our knowledge base.
These contributions are used to teach MeGlobe™ to become a better
translator. Every correction from the community brings us closer to our
goal of erasing the borders of language.
Creating a universal translator has huge potential, but requires
lots of work. By no means has it been perfected, but with your help
we're getting better every day.
Put simply, MeGlobe is an instant messaging web application on
steroids. While traditional IM tools like Gchat or AIM let you connect
with friends, MeGlobe lets you chat online with people even if they
don’t speak your language.
MeGlobe is powered by Jabber software, often referred to as "the Linux of instant messaging."
If you ever notice a translation is wrong, you can edit it by
clicking the square in the chat box. Your correction will help our
algorithm learn the correct translation, so you won’t have to make that
edit again.
Visit MeGlobe.com | | Posted: 7/9/2008 at 03:03 | Read 150 times | 0 comments | Leave Comment |
 | Instant Message in different languages - Meglobe | | Meglobe
is an Instant Messaging service that allows you to send messages in
different languages. The translator translates your message from your
default language into several different languages which includes
English, French, Spanish, Italian, Portuguese, Deutsch, Japanese,
Russian, Nederlands, Greek, Korean, Arabic, Swedish and Chinese.
To avail the service, you first have
to go through an easy process of registration. Once registered, you
will be able to see a messenger on your homepage. You can add/remove
friends, search a contact in your list, minimise the messenger or put
it anywhere on the window you feel comfortable with. Also you can
search people by their Meglobe id/username, country, location (State),
activity, interest, gender and primary language.
In its beta stage, the site has
certain flaws which can easily be fixed. You can’t customise your
status in the messenger, you can only set it to either available or
away. When you’re finding people by ‘activity’ or ‘interest’, you can
hardly get any result. This can be improved by giving users a drop down
menu containing various options including an ‘others’ options (users
will select this option if they can’t find any option of their
interest).
If
you remove anyone from list, he/she still appears on your list. You
can’t upload snap in your profile. When you login to your homepage you
can’t see options which lie at the lower side of the messenger (i.e.
add or remove contact options) because of an advertisement.
Furthermore if you resize your window
to half, the version of the application appears on the welcome message.
Translation from all languages should be available instead of only
default language. Unexpectedly logout is also not working.

The layout of the website is awesome
and the thing which I liked the most is their service of instant
translation and messaging. They have achieved the goal of providing
this service though they need to work on other features to make the
website more user friendly. Watching their attitude towards the service
I’m very much positive that they will remove the flaws soon. I’ve liked
the service very much and I’m optimistically looking forward for the
complete version of the application.

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 | 2008最龌龊的语录 | 001老鼠一发威,大家都是病猫。
002和一MM争论鲸鱼是不是鱼,最后我说“曰本人也带个人字”,她这才同意鲸鱼不是鱼。
003男人膝下有黄金,我把整个腿都切下来了,连块铜也没找着!
004春天我把玉米埋在土里,到了秋天我就会收获很多玉米。春天我把老婆埋在土里,到了秋天我就会…被枪毙!
005如果你看到面前的阴影,别怕,那是因为你的背后有阳光!
006踏遍青楼人未老,请用汇仁肾宝。
007听君一席话,省我十本书!
0080岁出场亮相,10岁天天向上。20岁远大理想,30岁发奋图强。40岁基本定向,50岁处处吃香。60岁打打麻将,70岁处处闲逛。80岁拉拉家常,90岁挂在墙上!
009脱了衣服我是禽兽,穿上衣服我是衣冠禽兽!
010师太,你就从了老衲吧!…很久很久以后…师太,你就饶了老衲吧!
011“亲爱的,我…我怀孕了…三个月了,不过你放心,不是你的,不用你负责……”
012我们产生一点小分歧:她希望我把粪土变黄金,我希望她视黄金如粪土。
013读10年语文,不如聊半年QQ。
014早晨懒床,遂从口袋里掏出6枚硬币:如果抛出去六个都是正面,我就去上课!思躇良久,还是算了,别冒这个险了……
015我花8万买了个西周陶罐,昨儿到《鉴宝》栏目进行鉴定,专家严肃地说:“这哪是西周的?这是上周的!”
016我能容忍身材是假的,脸是假的,胸是假的,臀是假的!!!但就是不容忍钱是假的!!!!
017士为知己者装死,女为悦己者整容。
018长大了要嫁给唐僧,能玩就玩,不能玩就把他吃掉。
019一山不能容二虎,除非一公和一母。
020千万别等到人人都说你丑时才发现自己真的丑。
021如果朋友可以出卖,每个值五块的话,我也能发笔小财了。
022征婚启事:要求如下,A活的,B女的。
023给点阳光我就腐烂。
024要适当吃一点,才有劲减肥啊。
025摇啊摇,摇到奈何桥。
026命运负责洗牌,但是玩牌的是我们自己!
027问:你喜欢我哪一点?答:我喜欢你离我远一点!
028你快回来,我一人忽悠不来!
029生活就像宋祖德的嘴,你永远都不知道下一个倒霉的会是谁~~~
030跌倒了,爬起来再哭~~~
031世界上难以自拔的,除了牙齿,还有爱情。
032一恐龙路过西安交大时上了趟厕所,出来后她呜咽道:“555,这辈子终于不愁嫁不出去了……”
033生,容易。活,容易。生活,不容易。
034吾表兄,年四十余。始从文,连考三年而不中。遂习武,练武场上发一矢,中鼓吏,逐之出。改学医,自撰一良方,服之,卒。
035问君能有几多愁,恰似一群太监上青楼……
036吾生也有涯,而吃也无涯~~~
037想污染一个地方有两种方法:垃圾,或是钞票!
038年轻的时候,我们常常冲着镜子做鬼脸;年老的时候,镜子算是扯平了。
039你瞎了眼啊?这么大的盾牌你看不见,偏偏要把石头朝我脑袋上扔!
040出问题先从自己身上找原因,别一便秘就怪地球没引力。
041拍脑袋决策,拍胸脯保证,拍屁股走人。
042我们走得太快,灵魂都跟不上了……
043不要和地球人一般见识~~~
044女孩从处女到女人只要一次并成功,男孩从处男变男人需要反复的磨练!
045出来混,老婆迟早是要换的!
046小时候我以为自己长大后可以拯救整个世界,等长大后才发现整个世界都拯救不了我……
047有钱的都是大爷!但是欠钱不还的更是!
048我就算是一只癞蛤蟆,我也决不娶母癞蛤蟆。
049生前何必久睡,死后自会长眠……
050不想当厨子的裁缝,不是好司机。
051时间是最好的老师,但遗憾的是——最后他把所有的学生都弄死了。
052去西安出差的路上,一位大连老兄一阵狂吹大连多好多好,然后说大连建市一百周年的时候举行了很隆重的庆祝活动云云,然后问了旁边一人:“西安建
市一百周年有什么庆祝活动没有?”旁边几位西安的哥们一愣,过了一会儿,逼出一句话来:“我记得西安建市600年的时候搞了一个‘烽火戏诸侯’吧……”
053钻石恒久远,一颗就破产!
054和谐校园里,骑自行车的也许是位博导,而开奔驰的则可能是个后勤……
055是金子,总会花光的;是镜子,总会反光的……
056我女友不当尼姑的原因是她四级没过,庵里不收。
057明星脱一点就能更出名,我脱的光光的却被抓起来了!
058看一漂亮MM,苦无搭讪办法,路旁一砖头,拣起,上前,“同学,这是你掉的吧?”
059小时候的梦想并不是要当什么科学家,幻想自己是地主家的少爷,家有良田千顷,终日不学无术,没事领着一群狗奴才上街去调戏一下良家少女……
060别和我谈理想,戒了!
061玫瑰你的,巧克力你的,钻石你的。你,我的!
062所谓惊喜就是你苦苦等候的兔子来了,后面跟着狼!
063什么是幸褔?幸福就是猫吃鱼狗吃肉,奥特曼打小怪兽!
064俩农夫吹牛:“俺们农场的鸡,吃的都是茶叶,下的全是茶叶蛋”“有嘛啊,咱农场给鸡吃钱包,让它下荷包蛋。”
065蟑螂都不怕蟑螂药了,我们却连维生素都搞不定!
066长个包子样就别怨狗跟着!
067男人偷腥时的智商仅次于爱因斯坦!
068为中华而努力读书!一包中华好多钱啊……
069如果你不能给你的女人穿上嫁衣,那么千万别停下你解开她衣扣的手!
070别以为穿着脏衣服就可以做污点证人;别以为穿着木制拖鞋就可以做木屐证人……
071事业是国家的,荣誉是单位的,成绩是领导的,工资是老婆的,财产是孩子的,错误是自己的。
072凤凰重生就是涅盘,野鸡重生就是尸变。
073如果有一天我变成流氓,请告诉别人,我纯真过……
074老子不但有车,还是自行的……
075女人拥有无数个QQ号只为了调戏一个男人,男人常用一个QQ号上面加满各种各样的女人……
076偶然看见书上所谓的当代女子择偶标准:“有车有房,父母双亡。”郁闷。遂写下幻想中的选妻标准:“家中财产过亿,美貌天下第一,贤惠温柔性感,岳父癌症晚期……”
077大部分人一辈子只做三件事:自欺、欺人、被人欺。
078睡眠是一门艺术——谁也无法阻挡我追求艺术的脚步!
079为了避免家庭暴力,于是我决定不结婚!
080你可以像猪一样的生活,但你永远都不能像猪那样快乐!
081迅雷不及掩耳盗铃,以不变应万变不离其宗,成事不足挂齿,此物最相思风雨中,一屋不扫何以扫天下无敌,东边日出西边雨一直下,举头望明月几时
有,呆若木鸡毛当令箭,杀鸡焉用牛刀小试,锋芒毕露春光,围魏救赵宝奎,Very good bye,八格牙鲁冰花,一泻千里共婵娟……
082某女的一篇博客日记:某月某日,大醉而归,伸手一摸——手机和贞操都在,睡觉!
083又美丽、又纯洁、又温柔、又性感、又可爱的处女,就像鬼魂一样,男人们都在谈论它,但从来没有人亲眼见过……
084记得小学老师骂我:“我一巴掌把你踢出去!”当时我想笑却不敢笑。现在,是敢笑却不会笑了……
085如果幸福是浮云,如果痛苦似星辰。那我的生活真是万里无云,漫天繁星……
086避孕的效果:不成功,便成“人”。
087孤单是一个人的狂欢,狂欢是一群人的孤单。
088这世上最累的事情,莫过于眼睁睁看着自己的心碎了,还得自己动手把它粘起来。
089人生的悲惨在于:辛辛苦苦的作了一晚上内容香艳的美梦,第二天早上醒来居然全都记不起来了!
090父亲问我人生有什么追求?我回答金钱和美女,父亲凶狠的打了我的脸;我回答事业与爱情,父亲赞赏的摸了我的头。
091男人都好色,色心稍强一点叫色狼,再强一点叫色鬼,更加强就叫色魔,尤其强那就成了变态色魔,好色到了极致,被称作人体美学艺术家。
092记得刚毕业不久的一天,女友给我发了一条短信:“我们还是分手吧!”我还没来得及伤心呢,女友又发来一条:“对不起,发错了。”这下可以彻底伤心了……
093此地禁止大小便,违者没收工具。
094在街上看美女,目光高一点就是欣赏,目光低一点就是流氓。
095孩儿他娘,咱这辈子还有很多事要做呢,别耽误功夫和我玩捉迷藏了,赶紧蹦出来吧~~~
096女人一生喜欢两朵花:一是有钱花,二是尽量花!
097一炮走红——是形容女艺人的……
098这个世界不公平就在于:上帝说:“我要光!”于是有了白天。美女说:“我要钻戒!”于是她有了钻戒。富豪说:“我要女人!”于是他有了女人。我说:“我要洗澡!”居然停水了!
099真不明白,女孩买很多很多漂亮衣服穿,就是为了吸引男孩的目光,但男孩想看的,却是不穿衣服的女孩。
100偶尔幽生活一默你会觉得很爽,但生活幽你一默就惨了……
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 | 2008经典语录 | 1、高中时候老师说:学好数理化走遍天下都不怕,上了大学才知道全TTM瞎说,等工作了才知道原来有点道理。
2、说出来的话就象射出的精一样,不带套你就死定了!
3、做人不要太CNN
4、自从吃了药我们的精神分裂症好了
5、世界上最远的距离不是我爱你你却拒绝我,而是你在石家庄我TM却在南昌
6、你看文科生也知道天热出来凉快,逻辑思维并不差嘛
7、文:知道红楼梦的作者是谁吗? 理:知道1 1=?吗?
8、初夜就象是支西一样,只要过了高原反映的痛苦阶段你就会爱上它
9、你可以不爱我,但是你不能剥夺我爱你的权利
10、你在我心里就想是套上保鲜膜一样不论多久依然清新;我在你心里就想保险套一样,不论用没用过都是那么脏
11、**就象香烟一样,不论多少钱的你只要抽就会冒烟,只是味道不同而已
12、笔记本不一定是Notebook,laptop一定是笔记本
13、听床板在唱歌,听床板在唱歌。。。
14、你问我为什么这么有才?我是把别人读书的时间都用在泡网上了
15、—我怕疼 —别怕,我会慢慢推进去的 打针时候的台词
16、很黄,很暴力
17、口斤讠兑有每攵感字白勺贝占要衤皮册刂阝余
18、原来咬字是会意字
19、对错只是随导师的心情变化而变化的
20、杨过这样的残疾人都能泡到小龙女,我这样双臂健全的岂不是能泡到两个小龙女?
21、想不想知道我裙子下是什么?得色样儿,这下全国人民都知道了吧!
22、你是非主流,你们全家都是非主流
23、当失恋的时候才知道:我的整个大学四年和全部精力都献给了那个女人
24、过去叫个性,现在叫非主流,后来又成了脑残
25、给我一个女人我能创造一个民族
26、联想lenovo—来弄我,很黄
27、面对一个追求你的男人,不要说你曾经被抛弃过,因为男人的通病是模仿
28、爱你的同时,是我挑战飞蛾扑火的开始
29、小说的出版社,费用,剧情,序所有一切都弄好了,就差开写了
30、姓冯的导演不一定是冯小刚
带豫的名字不一定是河南人
打我的人不一定都是敌人
我爱的人不一定是我老婆
生你的人一定是你的母亲
31、会摇就摇不会摇就滚!
32、我如果是你的女朋友我就会勾引你喜欢吃我喜欢的零食,看你有什么理由管我!
33、哥们今天咋这么兴奋?是恋爱了还是失恋了?
34、我趴着是日地球,躺着是日宇宙
35、自从我给儿子讲了什么是汇率,每年压岁钱他都要黄金
36、起来!不愿坐着的人们
37、没交过女朋友,还没见过女人跑吗?
38、天生下来的是雨,而不是天才
39、世上本没有好帖,顶的人多了就成了好贴
PS:40、19—30有玄机看看谁能看出来呵呵
41:造句,不言而喻:我这么漂亮,你喜欢我是 不言而喻的。
42:70,80,90是长江后浪推前浪,一代更比一代浪
43:对猪是物知觉,对人是人知觉,总拿猪来骂人,你本身就是一头猪(我也矛盾?)
44:我们班里人都是神经病,就我正常,我刚吃完药
45:知道越多,烦恼越多
46:用百度搜SB出GOOGLE,用GOOGLE搜SB出百度
48:为什么呢?
49:上床看电视不如看电视的时候上床
50:我经常被骗,你看我身上是不是有bug呀!
51:A:回帖?B:必须滴!
52、哪里摔倒就在哪里躺下
53、你出生的时候,你哭着,周围的人笑着;你逝去的时候,你笑着,而周围的人在哭
54、上帝给了我们七情六欲,我们却把它变成色情和暴力
55、鸟由固定工作变成两岸三地轮流演出
56、没有水的地方就是沙漠,没有声音的地方就是寂寞,没有寂寞的地方一定很龌龊
57、男人的经验是从愉快中体会到的,女人的经验是由痛苦中粹取出来的
58、冲水同提裤腰带同样重要
59、正龙拍虎,虎假;冠希拍B,逼真
60、每天端详我的脸,镜子洋洋自得
61、我从来不吃鸭舌头,从鸭嘴里取出来的东西,多脏啊,我要吃炒鸡蛋
62、今天最后一条:“日”后再说
63、交大好,想怎么交就怎么交的
64、男人可以选择一无所有的女人,但是女人一般不会选择一个一无所有的男人(所以革命尚未成功,同学们仍需努力)
65、兰董,你被地球抛弃了,回火星去吧(兰董事件)
66、大学玩弄男生的女人,毕业后会被男人玩弄
67、创业时女人是男人的军师,事业有成时女人是男人的厨师(女人要二者兼备)
68、明星裸体可以,主播不穿内衣不行(露点事件)
69、那一夜,他是中国最猛的男人(巴黎留学生,那一刻他是中国最帅的帅哥)
70、Go to your mother去你吗的!
71、人生就象三级片,没有彩排,只有一次过
72、送花不如送身份证,把你的人生交给他
73、为什么女人有三点,而男人却只有双手?
74、淮南偷,淮北抢,阜阳没有共*铲*党(老话真准啊!)
75、今天最后一条:我的键盘让五台山的高僧开过光,写什么都准!(看完笑了回贴的,事事顺心,做生意发财,炮妞成功。不回的上网掉线,嫖娼被抓——该!)
76、生容易,活容易,生活不容易;写容易,传容易,让人回帖不容易
77、有钱的捧个钱场,没钱的送去火葬场
78、出轨并不可怕,可怕的是撞上了
79、皖南地区普降第一场瑞雪(见2008年大众日报第1版)
80、看政~府门前的车知道有多少贪官,看大学周围的旅馆知道此大学的处女率
81、男人疼的时候说“额”,女人疼的时候说“啊”;但是男人爽的时候说“啊”,女人爽的时候说“额”
82、人的寂寞,有时候能从身体上看出来
83、女人花,女人花,再小再难看的花迟早要开放
84、买股票不如让人买自己的股票
85、男人一变坏九头牛也拉不回来,女人一变心一头牛都拉不回来
86、慕容家的祖先是时间,无论你怎么糟践、浪费,它都会还回来的。大家小心哦
87、领导重视你的时候就是领导利用你的时候
88、抽一根烟燃烧寂寞。。。继续写
89、快乐?快还能感觉到乐?!
90、学会妥协就要成熟了,男女亦如此
91、多办一所学校,可少建一座监狱。——雨果名言(联系80条)
92、遗嘱是人生毕业的论文
93、没有能力在女人那是行不通的
94、人生自是有情痴,此恨不关风与也(联系40条)
95、毕业论文—空对空;毕业设计—地对地
96、爱就一个字,我没做一次
97、只要锄头舞的好,不怕墙角挖不倒
98、导演可以让明星一“炮”走红,我TM一泡尿也不红
99、一次只爱一个人
100、看贴不回好象是叫鸡不给钱,我TM都被强奸nn次了 | | Posted: 7/9/2008 at 00:58 | Read 109 times | 0 comments | Leave Comment |
 | How to Draw StumbleUpon Users Into Your Blog | How to Draw StumbleUpon Users Into Your Blog
Blog Promotion, Featured Posts, Social Media
This is a guest post on How to Draw StumbleUpon Users Into Your Blog is by Skellie who writes tips and tutorials on creating better content at her blog, Skelliewag.org.
The potential for StumbleUpon to send traffic is often under-estimated,
particularly by new bloggers. Unlike digg and del.icio.us, an item
doesn’t need to become popular before you see immediate results. One or
two votes can bring a hundred or more readers — more than a new blog
might see in a day.
StumbleUpon users are, however, notoriously fickle. The service
describes itself as allowing you to ‘channel-surf the internet’ and I
think it’s a very appropriate descr i ption. Users flick through websites
like you might flick through channels, often making a decision on
whether to stay or leave your site before it has even had time to
finish loading.
In this post, I want to suggest some quick tips you can use to draw StumbleUpon users into your site before they stumble away.
Channel-surfing the internet
We’ve all flicked through TV channels back and forth, waiting for
something to hold our attention. The decision to stay on a channel or
surf elsewhere is usually made in a second or two, and the principle is
the same for StumbleUpon users.
With so many other potentially great sites available to them at the
click of a mouse, you need to make it immediately clear why your site
is worth their time. Here are some tips to help you do just that.
1. Make your blog’s core mission-statement unmissable
A core mission-statement as I define it is a one or two sentence
descr i ption encapsulating what your blog has to offer. A good core
mission-statement describes the kind of content you provide and broadly
what your blog is about. It should communicate a lot of information in
only a few words.
If a stumbler can see straight away your blog is about something they’re interested in then they’re likely to stick around.
2. Insert powerful visual cues
When channel-surfing the decision to stick with a channel or move on
is often largely determined by visual cues. Even with the sound off you
can tell a drama from a news program, a travel show from a cartoon,
because visual elements provide clues as to what kind of show you’re
watching.
The same principle applies to blogs. If your blog’s header contains
an image of a pile of cash, we can reasonably assume the blog is about
money (or making it). That’s a lot of information communicated
instantly by a single image.
3. Push your content above the fold
StumbleUpon users often judge a site by what is offered in the above
the fold area — the area of your site which appears on screen before
any scrolling occurs.
I think this blog is an example of how to do that well. Not only do
headlines and the first few paragraphs of a post appear above the fold,
but other content of interest is showcased in the header area.
StumbleUpon users immediately see a site packed with value.
You can use the top part of your blog’s sidebar, its header area and
the post area to showcase your content. In doing so, you’ll straight
away show StumbleUpon visitors why they should stick around.
4. Be unique, be pretty
While it’s difficult to judge the quality of a blog’s content in
just a few seconds, people are much more hasty with aesthetic
judgments. A gorgeous or interesting blog design encourages a stumbler
to stick around and see whether the content is great too.
Of course, a great design is a lot of work (or quite a bit of
money). The next-best thing is a unique logo or header image, an
interesting color scheme, and so on. There are a number of small
changes you can make to create a blog that looks unique and sets you
apart from the crowd.
What we’ve done
The emphasis in all the above tips is on instantly showing visitors
who’ve stumbled across your blog what it has to offer. This should help
you make the most of StumbleUpon traffic and turn more stumblers into
readers. StumbleUpon带来流量的潜能通常被忽视了,特别是被新博客忽视了。和Digg、del.icio.us不同,StumbleUpon上分享的东西不需要等到这些东西受欢迎后才能见到直接的效果。一两个投票就可以带来一百个或者更多的读者——一天不只一个新博客会看见您分享的东西吧。
StumbleUpon的读者是变幻无常的。StumbleUpon用可以“跳频”来描述自己,我认为这种描述非常恰当。读者浏览StumbleUpon时也会像您一样浏览频道,并经常在页面尚未下载完之前决定是继续浏览还是赶紧走人。
本文将就如何在这些读者走掉之前把他们引导到您的博客提供建议。
跳频
我们都会来来回回的浏览电视频道,以便找到自己喜欢的节目。继续看还是跳频往往在一两秒钟内就决定了,同样,StumbleUpon的用户也会这样做。
读者通过点击鼠标可以选择很多潜在的优秀网站,您必须马上让读者明白为什么您的网站值得他们光顾。以下是一些实用技巧。
1. 清楚的表达您的博客主题
主题描述,我的定义是用一两句话概括您的博客提供什么样的内容。一个好的主题描述包括提供的内容以及博客的范围。应该只用很少的文字表达很多的信息。
StumbleUpon用户如果能够看清楚您的博客是关于他们感兴趣的话题的话,就很可能在您的博客上逗留。
2. 插入强有力的视觉线索
是否跳频很大程度上是根据视觉线索来决定的。您可以毫不犹豫的区分戏剧和新闻、旅游节目和卡通片,因为视觉因素暗示了您正在看的是什么样的节目。
这个原则同样适用于博客。如果您博客的页眉包含一叠钞票的图片,我们就可以适度地估计您的博客是关于钱的(或者关于如何赚钱的)。一个简单的图片可以立即传达很多的信息。
3. 把您的文章推到页面的最上部分。
StumbleUpon用户判断一个网页,通常是根据页面的最上部分(即不用拉动上下滚动条就可以看到的部分)的内容。
我想这个博客(指职业博客——精博注)就是一个很好的例子。页面的最上部分不仅包括博客标题和特色文章摘要,而且页眉部分还陈列了其他有趣的内容。StumbleUpon用户马上就可以看出这是一个有价值的博客。
您可以利用您的博客侧边栏、页眉和正文区域陈列您的内容。这样一来,您就马上告诉了读者他们为什么要在您的博客上逗留。
4. 独特并且美观
虽然在几秒钟内很难判断一个博客的好坏,但是读者更加倾向于凭第一印象来判断。一个漂亮或者有趣的博客设计会鼓励StumbleUpon用户在您的博客上逗留并判断博客内容的质量。
当然,一个优秀的设计需要很多努力(或者很多钱)。其次,一个独特的标识或者页眉图片、一个有趣的色彩设计等等也是非常重要的。您可以改变很多细节,从而使您的博客看起来与众不同。
总结
以上4个实用技巧强调的是立即让读者明白您的博客是写什么的。这应该可以帮助您充分利用StumbleUpon的流量并把更多的StumbleUpon用户引导到您的博客。
精博寄语:
1 原文:How to Draw StumbleUpon Users Into Your Blog
2 原文作者:Skellie
3 原作者所讲的技巧其实就是博客的主题和视觉效果的优化,主题明确,给读者的第一印象好,就可以更好地引导StumbleUpon的用户光顾您的博客。
4 其实,我认为如果要获得更多来自StumbleUpon的流量,除了博客本身的设计外,更重要的是要对StumbleUpon的用户做出贡献,比如分享内容、发表评论、多交朋友等等。 | | Posted: 7/4/2008 at 22:42 | Read 107 times | 0 comments | Leave Comment |
 | Bad guys really do get the most girls | NICE guys knew it, now two studies have confirmed
it: bad boys get the most girls. The finding may help explain why a
nasty suite of antisocial personality traits known as the "dark triad"
persists in the human population, despite their potentially grave
cultural costs.
The traits are the self-obsession of narcissism; the impulsive,
thrill-seeking and callous behaviour of psychopaths; and the deceitful
and exploitative nature of Machiavellianism. At their extreme, these
traits would be highly detrimental for life in traditional human
societies. People with these personalities risk being shunned by others
and shut out of relationships, leaving them without a mate, hungry and
vulnerable to predators.
But being just slightly evil could have an upside: a prolific sex
life, says Peter Jonason at New Mexico State University in Las Cruces.
"We have some evidence that the three traits are really the same thing
and may represent a successful evolutionary strategy."
Jonason and his colleagues subjected 200 college students to
personality tests designed to rank them for each of the dark triad
traits. They also asked about their attitudes to sexual relationships
and about their sex lives, including how many partners they'd had and
whether they were seeking brief affairs.
“ High 'dark triad' scorers are more likely to try to poach other people's partners for a brief affair”
The study found that those who scored higher on the dark triad
personality traits tended to have more partners and more desire for
short-term relationships, Jonason reported at the Human Behavior and
Evolution Society meeting in Kyoto, Japan, earlier this month. But the
correlation only held in males.
James Bond epitomises this set of traits, Jonason says. "He's
clearly disagreeable, very extroverted and likes trying new things -
killing people, new women." Just as Bond seduces woman after woman,
people with dark triad traits may be more successful with a
quantity-style or shotgun approach to reproduction, even if they don't
stick around for parenting. "The strategy seems to have worked. We
still have these traits," Jonason says.
This observation seems to hold across cultures. David Schmitt of
Bradley University in Peoria, Illinois, presented preliminary results
at the same meeting from a survey of more than 35,000 people in 57
countries. He found a similar link between the dark triad and
reproductive success in men. "It is universal across cultures for high
dark triad scorers to be more active in short-term mating," Schmitt
says. "They are more likely to try and poach other people's partners
for a brief affair."
Barbara Oakley of Oakland University in Rochester, Michigan, says
that the studies "verify something a lot of people have conjectured
about".
Christopher von Rueden of the University of California at Santa
Barbara says that the studies are important because they confirm that
personality variation has direct fitness consequences.
"They still have to explain why it hasn't spread to everyone," says
Matthew Keller of the University of Colorado in Boulder. "There must be
some cost of the traits." One possibility, both Keller and Jonason
suggest, is that the strategy is most successful when dark triad
personalities are rare. Otherwise, others would become more wary and
guarded.
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2008-06-28 15:49
两项研究证实了人们长久以来的猜测:男的不坏女的不爱。这项研究有助于解释为什么那些被认为是“黑暗三性格”的反社会人格特征并没有被进化淘汰,尽管他们潜在地具有重要文化价值可能造成严重文化损失。
这三类“坏坏”的性格特征包括:自我中心(自恋者)、热爱冒险刺激且心狠手辣(心理变态者)、善于撒谎喜将人玩弄于股掌(权谋者,参见马基维利主义)。在极端情况下,这些性格特征会对传统的人类社会造成伤害。其他人会避开这类人,这可能让他们让他们成为离群、孤独、饥渴而易受攻击的人。
但轻微的邪恶却又有有利的一面:更多的性生活。新墨西哥州立大学的皮特·乔纳森说,“我们有证据证明三种性格本质上是一样的,他们或许都代表一种成功的进化策略。”
乔纳森和他的同事 主持了针对两百名大学生的人格测试,通过测试评价每种黑暗性格。他们还调查了被测者对性关系和性生活的情况,包括曾经有过的性伴侣数目和是否有过出轨。
“高‘黑暗三性格’得分的人偷情的可能性比较大。”
这项研究发
现,黑暗属性值越高的人更容易有多个伴侣,并且更喜欢短暂的露水关系。乔纳森在日本京都前不久举行的人类行为和进化社会学会议(Human
Behavior and Evolution Society meeting)上做了这一报告。不过,这种相关性只存在于男人中。(囧之——译者注)

坏 男人的代表:詹姆士·邦德
乔纳森认为,奸姆斯·邦是这些黑暗属性的缩影。“他确实有点儿让人生厌,但他喜欢交际并热衷于尝试新鲜事物——比如说,杀人,或者不停地换新姑娘。”邦德是个十足的女性杀手,那些具有黑暗性格的人们大概也更容易在数量上取得成功,这在生物繁殖领域叫做“鸟枪法”——但是他们不会把过多精力放在养育后代上。“(在进化中)这种策略应该是奏效的,因为我们仍保留了这些属性。”乔纳森说道。
这项研究的
成果应该是具有跨文化意义的。伊利诺伊州布拉德雷大学的大卫·施密特在同一个会议上作了另一个报告,宣布了一项在57个国家、35000多人中做的调查的
初步结果。这项调查也证
实了男人的坏属性与繁殖能力之间的联系。“黑暗属性越高的男人就越喜欢短期约会,这是不受文化限制的普遍规律,”施密特说,“坏男人们更喜欢尝试并猎取别
人的伴侣,也会有更多的风流韵事。”(谨再囧——译者又注)
密歇根州奥克兰大学罗彻斯特分校的巴巴拉·奥克莱认为这两项研究“验证了许多人长期以来的猜想”。
加州大学圣塔芭芭拉分校的克里斯托弗·冯·罗登肯定了研究的重要性,因为他们证实个性变异对自然选择的结果生殖成就有直接影响**。
“他们仍需要解释为什么这种属性没有扩散到所有人,”科罗拉多大学波尔得分校的马修·凯勒问道。“那些黑暗属性必然有一些代价,”凯勒和乔纳森都认为有这么一种可能:只有当黑暗人格属性极罕见的时候,这类策略才是最成功的。否则,其他人会对这类东西提高警惕以保护自己。
| | Posted: 6/29/2008 at 07:30 | Read 79 times | 0 comments | Leave Comment |
 | 8 Kinds of Sex Every Couple Should Try |
Sure, you and your guy have good sex. Ideally, you have fantastic
sex, as often as possible. But there's more to a solid sex life than
just straight-up great sex. A truly amazing sexual connection
encompasses lots of different kinds of sex — maybe even ones you
wouldn't expect. After all, your relationship isn't one-note, so why
should your sex life be?
"You change, you age, and you grow as a couple in an emotional and
an intellectual way," says Laura Meers, Ph.D., a psychologist in family
practice in Columbus, OH. "Hopefully you're growing and changing
sexually too. And the more dimensions there are in a relationship in
general, the more you will see those dimensions reflected in your sex
life."
See which kinds of sex you and your other half have hit so far. As for the ones you haven't, well...you know what to do.
1. Pushing-Your-Boundaries Sex
There's nothing like the moment when you're lying naked with the man
you've known and loved for a long time, panting and puffing, thinking, Wow, we've never done that before.
"People in long-term relationships sometimes crave excitement and
stimulation, but don't know how to get it with their partner," explains
Meers, who adds that this is one of the reasons people stray outside
the marriage. "But you can get that in your current
relationship by pushing your regular comfort zone." If you're used to
missionary, that may mean trying a new position or a new room in the
house; if you're used to stimulation by body parts alone, it may be a
sex toy thrown in the mix. And if you feel a little anxious about
experimenting, says Meers, all the better: "The anxiety you feel about
trying something new mimics what happens when you're with somebody new.
So if you can create that feeling within the confines of an intimate,
close, trusting relationship, you will keep reenergizing what you have."
And there's another important benefit: Pushing your boundaries helps
build trust between you. "When you communicate a desire to your partner
— and, ultimately, try it — you're taking a big risk together," says
Anita Clayton, M.D., a professor at the University of Virginia's
Department of Psychiatric Medicine and author of the book Satisfaction. Taking that risk, she says, is a bonding activity in and of itself.
2. Maintenance Sex
Let's face it — sex just isn't going to be an eye-gazing spiritual
encounter every time. "Some couples think everything has to feel
perfect, or you both have to be in a sexual mood to have sex, but if
everyone waited for that, sex wouldn't happen very often at all," says
Clayton. That's where maintenance sex comes in — when you just do it,
even if your engine isn't necessarily raring for a ride.
Just-for-the-sake-of-it sex is vital to a long-term relationship,
because no matter how much you love your family, your friends, or your
kids, and no matter how much time you spend with them, you won't spend
time like this
with anyone else. "Sex is the one activity a couple has that excludes
other people," says Clayton. "It keeps your bond unique and strong." By
making a habit of it, you're building regular opportunities for
connection into your lives.
Take it from Olivia, 33, a stay-at-home mom in New Jersey who relies on
occasional maintenance sex to keep her relationship energized. "My
husband always wants to do it, but as a new mom, I'm tired all the
time," says Olivia. "But when I make the effort, I always
feel closer to him afterward. Even if the sex is mediocre, it feels
like we've come together and nothing can get in the way of our
relationship."
And let's not forget how good regular sex is for you: It relieves
stress, it burns calories, and it elevates your mood, says Meers.
According to Olivia, it also keeps her sex drive steady: "Doing it
sometimes when I'm not in the mood keeps me geared up for something
much hotter other times."
3. Embarrassing-Moment Sex
It's bound to happen eventually: One of you emits an awkward grunt,
your sweat-soaked skin slaps together in a cringe-inducing fashion, or
your partner pulls or pushes in such a way as to create a "schluup"
sound that both of you would like to forget. As mortifying as a moment
like this may be — even with someone you've been with for a long time —
it is a good reminder that sex is a raw, Discovery Channel kind of act.
It's not supposed to be flawless. "Sex is full of smells and
sights and sounds; it's natural," says Debra Herbenick, Ph.D., a
researcher for the Kinsey Institute and associate director for the
Center for Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University. "You're
having sex with human bodies, and they do funny things sometimes, and
that's okay."
And your ability to deal with a red-in-the-face moment — whether you
laugh it off or give each other a sympathetic squeeze — says a lot
about the strength of your bond. "True intimacy is about being able to
feel comfortable and real with each other in awkward, embarrassing
situations," says Ruth Morehouse, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist and
marriage and family therapist in Evergreen, CO.
Noelle, a 32-year-old grad student in Washington, DC, remembers her
last embarrassing sex moment: "When my boyfriend pulled out, I had my
first 'queef' moment, if I can use that word," says Noelle. "We'd been
together two years by then, but we were both stunned and didn't know
what to say. Finally I said, 'Whoops!' and we just carried on. I was
almost relieved, like it was this big hurdle we finally got out of the
way. And because, hey, it's normal."
4. Vacation Sex
"My husband and I had the best vacation sex recently in Hawaii," says
Francine, a 36-year-old mother of two from New York City. "We were on
the top floor of the resort, so we knew no one was above us to see or
hear us. And the room had these huge floor-to-ceiling windows
overlooking the ocean. It felt like we were having sex outdoors, but
without the nuisance of the sand going up our butts!"
Ah, yes, the turn-on effect of the tropics. And thank goodness for it,
because vacation sex is a vital part of a good sex life. "On vacation,
you're at your most carefree, which means you can try new things you
won't have to be accountable for at home," says Meers. In other words,
you can have sex on the beach or in a car, or flirt madly in a
restaurant, or, like Francine, have what feels like sex in public — all
of which you might not do at home, for fear someone you know would see
you or find out. "Taking risks like this adds to the excitement," says
Meers. And ideally, you can bring that burst of excitement back home
with you.
The point is, if life in the bedroom is feeling blah, it's often your surroundings
that are getting stale, not your partner. So if you haven't had
vacation sex lately, do it! You don't need a plane ticket to get
started: "Head to a hotel downtown and call it a vacation," says Meers,
who often recommends vacation sex to her clients. "You can look forward
to it and build it up beforehand for even better sex."
5. Slow-Road-to-Sleep Sex
We all know by now that it's the journey that really matters
in life, not the destination. In sex, that means not every sexual
experience should be focused on getting to the orgasm(s). But the truth
is, not every sexual experience leads anywhere at all. Some nights, you
start out on the journey and you'd like to keep going, but, boy, sleep sounds so darn good too...and that's when things peter out.
Luckily, the experts say this kind of sex is still good for your bond.
"Even acknowledging that you want your partner is important, whether or
not you follow through," says Meers. If you feel sleep coming on, Meers
suggests you say to your partner, "'I love you so much and I want you.'
Just saying it out loud, that counts for a lot too." In the meantime,
you're just two warm bodies who love each other and appreciate that a
sweet, simple touch can be enough for the night.
6. Make-up Sex
It's been said you shouldn't go to bed angry. And sometimes, you can
take that to a different extreme, ensuring that after a fight you go to
bed happy — very, very
happy. Yes, we're talking about the wild and intense world of make-up
sex, when one minute you're reeling from anger, and the next you're
rolling around making passionate love. Make-up sex works because after
a fight, you're raw, exposed, and vulnerable — perfect conditions for
intense, soul-to-soul physical bonding. "In many ways, make-up sex
restores a level of closeness that you may feel was fractured by the
argument," says Clayton. "Sex can repair that fracture."
One commonsense caveat: "Some people pick fights in order to be able to
make up," says Clayton. Other couples ignore their real problems and
have sex instead. If the only time you're getting along is when you're
in the sack, maybe you should take a break from the make-ups and face
your issues with your clothes on first.
7. Comfort Sex
If you're feeling sad, depressed, grieving, alone, or hurt, sex can be the perfect antidote. Why? Because it's the opposite
of all those things — it's about being close, warm, loving, and
together. And because sometimes talking about your troubles or sadness isn't what you want, while sex can be.
"My husband's mom had Parkinson's and a stroke, my dad had major heart
surgery, and my mom had Alzheimer's, so my husband and I have spent a
lot of time in bed comforting each other," explains Beth, 57, a former
teacher and stay-at-home mom in Chicago. "In those times, sometimes
it's full-penetration sex, sometimes it's just snuggling, sometimes
it's manually stimulating each other, but for us it's important. It
makes you remember why you're living. If you focus on the bad stuff to
the end, it's not worth it. You have to focus on what makes you want to
get up every morning, what makes you want to go through every day. And
part of that, for us, is the sex."
That desire for a connection is not only common, says Morehouse, it's
important as a life-affirming act in the face of grief. "Sex is a way
of declaring your aliveness," says Morehouse. "It's a way of defending
yourself against the inevitability of death or loss." Usually, she
says, comfort sex is "more poignant, more sweet, and perhaps more
emotional than usual" because the desire to connect to life is so great.
And that thriving, healing act can also help people who feel torn apart
from each other during a difficult period. "Grief tends to drive a
wedge between couples," says Clayton, noting that partners sometimes
blame themselves, or each other, during a loss. "I've seen couples
break up because something bad happens, but sex can help restore the
intimate relationship you have. Instead of letting grief pull you
apart, you can use it to pull each other close again."
8. Crazy Hang-from-the-Chandelier Sex
You know what we're talking about: wild, sweaty,
so-good-it-makes-you-dizzy sex. No matter how long you've been
together, you need to have earthshaking sex like this once in a while —
even if it's once in a very
long while. For long-term couples, having an extra-hot sexual
experience is "like a flashback," says Morehouse. "It can stimulate
those early feelings you had toward someone in the beginning, and it
reminds you what you're capable of as a couple."
"People think the steamy stuff only happens before you are married or
pre-kids, but we are going on 25 years of marriage and still have
passionate hot sex!" says Maureen, a self-employed New Jersey mother of
three in her mid-40s. She remembers one recent night that felt as hot
as the old flames. "I'd just finished cooking dinner, and no kids were
home. When my husband came in, he said he was going upstairs to change.
But as he kissed me, it evolved from just talking about the day to sex
on the kitchen counter. It was totally spontaneous and unexpected!"
This kind of sex is also important on a deeper level. "It requires a
lot of intimacy to let your partner see you in the throes of sexual
abandon," explains Morehouse. "When you display that side of yourself,
you have to deal with questions like, What if my face gets purple or my eyes go back in my head?
To express a higher level of sensuality like this is another way of
being intimate." And let's not forget how much a toe-curling orgasm
does to keep your eyes bright and your soul smiling! | | Posted: 6/27/2008 at 19:24 | Read 74 times | 0 comments | Leave Comment |
 | Study: Men's brains link sex and money | WASHINGTON (AP) -- A new brain-scan study may help
explain what's going on in the minds of financial titans when they take
risky monetary gambles -- sex.
When young men were shown erotic pictures, they were more likely to
make a larger financial gamble than if they were shown a picture of
something scary, such as a snake, or something neutral, such as a
stapler, university researchers reported.
The arousing pictures lit up the same part of the brain that lights up when financial risks are taken.
"You have a need in an evolutionary sense for both money and women.
They trigger the same brain area," said Camelia Kuhnen, a Northwestern
University finance professor who conducted the study with a Stanford
University psychologist.
Their research appears in the current edition of the peer-reviewed journal NeuroReport.
The study involved 15 heterosexual young men at Stanford University.
It focused on the sex and money hub, the V-shaped nucleus accumbens,
which sits near the base of the brain and plays a central role in what
you experience as pleasure.
When that hub was activated by the erotic images, the men were far
more likely to bet high on a random chance game that would earn them
either a dollar or a dime. Each man made more than 50 gambles under
brain scans.
Stanford
psychologist Brian Knutson, a lead author of the study, says it's all
about the power of emotion and arousal and our financial decisions. The
trigger doesn't have to be sex -- it could be chocolate or a winning
lottery ticket.
"It didn't matter if the sexy woman didn't tell you anything about
the odds of winning a roulette game," Knutson said. "What really
matters is that the sexy woman is having an emotional impact. That
bleeds over into your financial decisions."
Kuhnen said the same link could hold true for women, but they didn't
test it because it is more difficult to find an erotic image that would
appeal to many different heterosexual women compared to heterosexual
men.
The link between sex and greed goes back hundreds of thousands of
years, to men's evolutionary role as provider or resource gatherer to
attract women, said Kevin McCabe, professor of economics, law and
neuroscience at George Mason University, who wasn't part of the study.
"Risk-taking is a natural way of increasing your relative success,
but, of course, there's a downside to it, what we're seeing right now
in the economy," McCabe said.
The results of the study jibe with real life on the trading floor,
said Phil Flynn, a former Chicago, Illinois, commodities floor trader
and current analyst at Alaron Trading Corp.
"I'm not shocked that it may be part of the deal," Flynn said
Friday. "When you talk about all the euphemisms for trading [on the
floor], they can be used for sex as well."
("Massaging the market" and "hardcore" were the cleanest he and his colleagues could come up with.)
The study conforms with recent research that indicates men shown a
pornographic movie were more likely to make riskier sexual decisions.
Another suggests straight men think less about their financial future
after being shown pictures of pretty women.
One still-to-be-published study at Harvard University found a link between higher testosterone levels and financial risk-taking.
But the study conducted at Stanford, funded by the National
Institutes of Health, went deeper, using functional magnetic resonance
imaging machines. It's part of a new but growing field called
neuroeconomics that attempts to take the hard-wired science of brain
biology and mix it with the softer sciences of psychology and economics
to figure out why we make the financial decisions we do.
An earlier study by the same team found that the brain's reward area lit up at about the same time as risky decision-making.
The erotic pictures experiment was designed to find which was the
cause and which was the effect. The answer: Lighting up the reward
area, in this case with soft-core pictures, caused the risk-taking,
Kuhnen said.
"The more activation there you have, the more prone you are to taking more risk," Kuhnen said. "It could be a feedback loop."
The flip side was that the photos of snakes and spiders activated
the portion of the brain often associated with pain, fear and anger.
And those people were more likely to bet low.
This all makes sense to Harvard economist Terry Burnham, author of
the book "Mean Genes." Burnham said it could be all summed up in a
famous line from the movie "Scarface."
"In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get
the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get
the women." | | Posted: 6/27/2008 at 19:22 | Read 82 times | 0 comments | Leave Comment |
 | Men are like.. | 1. Men are like.. Laxatives: They irritate the crap out of you.
2. Men are like.. Bananas: The older they get, the less firm they are.
3. Men are like.. Weather: Nothing can be done to change them.
4. Men are like.. Blenders: You need One, but you're not quite sure why.
5. Men are like.. Chocolate: Bars Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.
6. Men are like.. Commercials: You can't believe a word they say.
7. Men are like.. Department Stores: Their clothes are always 1/2 off!
8. Men are like.. Government Bonds: They take soooooooo long to mature.
9 . Men are like.. Mascara: They usually run at the first sign of emotion.
10. Men are like.. Popcorn: They satisfy you, but only for a little while.
11. Men are like.. Snowstorms: You never know when they're coming, how many inches you'll get or how long it will last.
12. Men are like.. Lava Lamps: Fun to look at, but not very bright.
13. Men are like.. Parking Spots: All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped. | | Posted: 6/27/2008 at 19:01 | Read 100 times | 0 comments | Leave Comment |
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